okay here it goes, we are a secure couple that currently lives in the oshawa area. we are looking for a couple that is interested in getting to know each other. -when swinging we would prefer that both males wear condoms although we love nudity we are not picture traders -i take a while to get horny while my husband seems to walk around with a constant hard on. we are both shaved. - i am shy but once i get to know you better i will open up and become comic relief, my husband is not shy and has a great sense of humour -we both smoke(cigarettes and the occassional joint) we both drink socially (as im drinking a glass of wine right now wink wink) -we have a family so we just cant get up and go. things need to be planned. -other then ear rings ... we do not have piercings or tatoos -i love getting laid, but dont care about oral as much. the male has to wear a condom. i know th is wierd but i just cant do this... my husband is laughing saying there goes our chances / well maybe he can do it to you... just joking he is straight -we have been together for 12 years with no hang ups. no body is forced to do this... th is a mutually agreement. we have 2 dogs... and 2 rabbits. -we have only been checked for std's at the time of the birth of my children, neither of us screwed around on e another... we are very open. -i would like to meet a couple with a bi-female. i am very bi-curious. we really do not like pushy people. we are really laid back.we have a wide range of a humourous side, so if you dont like dry or sarcastic humour we probably are not the people for you. -my husband has an average sized cock.. so if you are looking for a tree trunk, then once again you are looking at the worng profile. personally i like men with a small to an average sized cock... my ex had a huge cock... just wasn't as much fun... well if your still reading this... you must be either shaking your head, or interested in contacting me. hopefully it is the contacting me