Ah, intrigue. Where would the forces of attraction be without it? Seriously. Laying all your cards out there on the table for all to see is a sure-fire way to not only snuff out the spark but also to get hurt. Ladies especially need to take this to heart, as we are the ones who are often suckered into the "Oh, I don't wanna play games" nonsense. Please. Love is a game that should be played with skill. So shuffle that deck and hold 'em close to your vest! A little mystery, a mixed signal, some unpredictability goes a very long way.