I am a Latin male (Brazilian, Dominican, Puerto Rican, and Haitian) new to Pittsburgh from Southern California (Los Angeles). When most women or couples make mention of seeking 'exceptional' singles, I'm more times than not quite fitting of that deion. I've been a lifestylist officially for 8 years, and I use the term officially as my parents were swingers and nudist, and my sisters and I were raised accordingly to be comfortable with ourselves, our bodies, and our sexuality. As a single man I am usually pre-determined to be either desperate, annoying, or without couth or manners...none of which I happen to relate to. I understand what it means to be a lifestylist in the truest sense of the word, and implore others to allow themselves to know me before casting judgement. You may wish to have no sexual contact with me, as couples or women may be the only interest you have, but to me this lifestyle is more so about developing and nurturing friendships than it is about conquest. We're all adults and we have desires, and I won't begin to say that I don't enjoy the sexual encounters I've been fortunate to have had over the years, hell we all love the diversity and the sex or we wouldn't be here LOL! However, I've found over time that many of my lasting, and truly meaningful relationships have been developed with individuals such as ourselves. Free-thinking and free-spirited individuals to whom emotional security is not an issue. These are the individuals I seek, and hopefully the individuals whom are not afraid to take a chance on a single man...