Firstly and most importantly - I am in a relationship so am not looking for a boyfriend or any other 'permanent' relationship so please don't pester - you will just get blocked.
Secondly, I live in the United Kingdom - more specifically - England. I can manage to read messages written in reasonable English - textspeak is not reasonable English.
Thirdly, messages that consist of one word or one line like 'Wazzup','Hey what's up' or 'What you been doin' from people I don't actually know in real life will either not be replied to or I will take the piss - life is too short and in my experience people who use those types of messages usually turn out to be timewasters.
Fourthly - if your profile is set to private and you haven't got me on your friends list please don't send me messages because I cannot reply to you. I know that is obvious to most but not to everyone it seems. Whilst on the subject of profiles - if you haven't bothered to fill yours in and have not put some pictures of yourself in your gallery and have just a silhouette or sectional body part as a profile picture do you honestly expect genuine people to take you seriously on here? If you don't have the nerve to be public best you don't bother.

Guys, please please please don't pester me to comment on your cock pictures - let's be honest - much as I love sex and feeling a cock in me I also have a good one of my own to look at, and I can touch mine - pictures of other peoples disembodied cocks are simply boring. OK one or two pictures to show you have one is fine but more than that close up? That's just insecurity. Show me well posed and lit full body nude studies with a face and thats different.

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Yes I do have a private rude gallery and I am a friendly and fairly open sort of girl so I do add ... on the 'quid pro quo' basis, yours gets mine ... however ... inclusion on my friends list does not automatically entitle folk to demand my off site email, my phone number, my address etc., I don't do 'text' and I find MSN/Yahoo messenger tedious so don't bother with it. Essentially I have a pretty active life and, although my profile may show me as `online` that is because of the magic of always on broadband - my domestic situation means I usually do not sit at the `puter for very long thus don`t do private chat - it just eats time.

No, I am not going to "go on cam for you" just because you want to jerk off for free - sheesh!

I am a genuine, early twenties, English Shemale living a real 'girl next door' lifestyle right here in England - yes, I actually shop at Tescos, M&S, the Mall and other High Street stores. I am sexually 'passive', quite tall, 5' 11" , slim (9st) have 32C cup breasts and an almost 8" secret in my panties. Of course a girl has to eat and pay the bills so I earn my corn by running my own adult content website which features pictures and video clips of my adventures with my boyfriend and my girlfriend and occasional 'third parties'. We now have our own production company so 2011 looks like being very busy and exciting for us all.

Now one of the things that we find is that many people who look at our set up from the outside see it only in comparatively simplistic terms - in other words - coloured by their own fantasies and quest for personal sexual gratification. The fact is that the dynamic is quite complex, we are actually in a 'menage a trois' - a stable loving three way relationship and do not run around meeting strangers on a single 1to1 basis for casual random sex - we have no need to, our 'menage' is very self contained.

As already stated we do sometimes have guys join us, however, if we invite someone to visit our little fantasy world it is on our terms not theirs and purely for the purpose of filming - nothing 'long term' - and only when we are shooting, which means guys have to be flexible on dates/times.  Because both my partners and I are quite tall our 'co-stars' need to be bi-sexual,  'active' (not passive),  over 5'10" tall and at least 7" in the cock department.  Age range between 21 and 40, physically fit and healthy.

The exhibitionist/video nature of our particular 'thing' means that our games would not suit someone who requires anonymity. If people want 'discretion' because of job or domestic status they need to look elsewhere.

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Even at an early age I knew that my feminine side was the strongest. I used to see the girls at my school developing and I so wanted the fashions they were able to wear. My small slim hands, svelt shape and round girlish bottom - "hips to die for" as one of my girl friends said - looked and felt so much better dressed as a girl.

Eventually I simply abandoned the struggle and began assembling a fully female wardrobe and cosmetic collection. Although I did not go out in public 'en femme' I dressed in private whenever I had the opportunity, beautiful underwear, soft and pretty nightwear, yadda yadda yadda. For a while this sort of satisfied a part of me but I was still aware this was a compromise. I didn't want to keep changing clothes all the time, I really wanted to be able to go out in public as me, as the person I feltl I truly am.

I was 19 when I 'came out' in public for the first time. It was so scary yet, at the same time liberating, an incredible 'high' to be honest, a night I will never forget. To cut a long story short, I was lucky enough to cross paths with a few nice people who understood my situation, amongst them Ukrudegirl She and her guy Alex took me into their relationship creating our rather unorthodox 'Menage a Trois' giving me their love and support and have helped me 'break out' as Sammi, a party girl who loves to have fun and I am now 'out' in public!

Since then I have not looked back - I love every aspect of being a girl, I have always been smooth all over and recently finished the job with laser treatment. My hands are slender, my legs long, I have a very curvy girlie bottom, a slim body and a combination of hormone treatment and implant surgery have resulted in my full breasts.

Of course there is the BIG question I am always getting asked: "If you go to all this trouble with your cosmetics and clothes and treatment, and you spend your time as a girl - why are you not going to go the whole way and have 'THE' operation?" When I was first asked that question I thought very hard about it and came to the conclusion that for me the answer was quite a simple one. I know who I am, I am comfortable with who I am and I don't see the need for unnecessary surgery. I don't 'hate' my penis, in fact, quite the reverse, it works perfectly well, is a reasonable size and is capable of bringing me pleasurable sensations. To have it removed and have a surgically constructed 'vagina' in its place with its attendant drawbacks such as very limited sensation, poor flexibility and hygiene issues does not seem a good swap. I do understand that some people see the penis as being the defining mark of masculinity and for some people its removal is a kind of 'rite of passage' on their journey to femininity. For me I find I have achieved femininity by attitude of mind, outward appearance and appropriate behavior thus I am content.

I hang with some of the best people ever - accepted for what I am - ME.