About me and just who I am................... Well I am a widdower. My wife died in January 2008 from cancer. for the last year my wonderful children have been browbeating me go "snap out of it Dad. Mom's dead and nothing is going to bring her back. You need to start looking for another Lady who can bring you happyness" And so, six months ago I started looking for a Lady to build a long term relationship. I have been told that I am unbelieveable, a miracle man, a super rare breed because of the fact that I am a passionate romantic, and that I live that style everyday, and of the fact that I treat women with total respect and care. Well, I do not apologize for either trait. It is the way I was raised. You treat women as a Queen until they show you differently. My great joy is to TOTALLY please and pleasure my Queen in every way that her heart and mind may desire. Then the old saying comes into effect: " What you soe is what ye shall reap". How you act towards women/people will come back to you. This was my secoond marriage and although it was only 7 years it was a real slice of heaven. I have a REALLY large family with the children My late wife brought into the marriage as well as what I brought it was 10(all grown and married/out on their own) and 26 grandchildren. As an only child, I totally love this large group I also have a very erotic sensuous side, I am very passionate with a high sex drive. I especially love giving and receiving oral gratification for extended (60-90 minutes) periods of time. My great joy is in TOTALLY pleasing and pleasuring my Lady in EVERY WAY that her heart, mind, and body could or would desire. Now IF anything that I have said in this e-mail you find something that sparks your interest, please contact me, lets chat. E-mail me at irishrover194032@gmail.com(irishrover1940---yahoo messenger). IF nothing else, lets chat and see where it goes. Lets explore what the future may hold. Who knows, the future may be extremely pleasurable for us. I hope to hear from you. And THAT is just who I am!!!